I don't know about 'reliable' but 'how' should work like this:
use Devel::Size qw(total_size);
# code by perrin
my $size_rec_hash = total_size(\%record);
my $size_flag_hash = total_size(\%flag);
print "Total size: $size_rec_hash + $size_flag_hash =",
$size_rec_hash + $size_flag_hash, "\n";
Update: I missed the point, please ignore.
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