SELECT FirstName, LastName, PhoneNumber, members.MemberID AS MemberID
FROM members
LEFT JOIN phone_numbers ON 
(
members.MemberID=phone_numbers.MemberID
AND phone_numbers.PhoneNumberID IN (SELECT MIN(PhoneNumberID) FROM phone_numbers GROUP BY MemberID)
)
WHERE Verified=1
ORDER BY LastName, FirstName, members.MemberID;