my ($src, $tgt, $prt, $r);

while(<>){
        ($src, $tgt, $prt) = $_ =~ 
              m/\s+(\S+)\s*\d+ dst outside (.*?) (\d+) by access-gr/;
        die "notgood: $_\n" unless $prt;
        $r->{$src}->{$tgt}->{$prt}++;
}
foreach $src (keys %{$r}) {     # foreach source ip
        foreach $tgt (keys %{$r->{$src}}) {     # foreach target ip
                foreach $prt (keys %{$r->{$src}->{$tgt}}) {
                        printf "%-16s %-16s %-6s counted %d times\n",
                                $src, $tgt, $prt,
                                $r->{$src}->{$tgt}->{$prt};
                }
        }
}

##</code><code>##

10.10.10.10      4.4.4.4          80     counted 1 times
10.10.10.10      6.6.6.6          80     counted 1 times
1.1.1.1          7.7.7.7          53     counted 1 times
1.1.1.1          3.3.3.3          53     counted 1 times
1.1.1.1          4.4.4.4          80     counted 2 times
1.1.1.1          9.9.9.9          53     counted 1 times
1.1.1.1          9.9.9.9          443    counted 1 times
1.1.1.1          9.9.9.9          80     counted 1 times
5.5.5.5          3.3.3.3          1433   counted 1 times
5.5.5.5          6.6.6.6          161    counted 1 times
5.5.5.5          6.6.6.6          443    counted 1 times
5.5.5.5          6.6.6.6          80     counted 1 times
8.8.8.8          4.4.4.4          80     counted 1 times
8.8.8.8          6.6.6.6          80     counted 1 times
2.2.2.2          7.7.7.7          80     counted 2 times
2.2.2.2          3.3.3.3          80     counted 2 times
2.2.2.2          4.4.4.4          80     counted 1 times