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<p>Shouldn't I be allowed < to choose whom I want to associate with?<  Now, add the fact that my sister and her husband are still very < attached to my ex, as they should be. The problem is they now include "her."</p>
<span>Shouldn't I be allowed < to choose whom I want to associate with?<  Now, add the fact that my sister and her husband are still very < attached to my ex, as they should be. The problem is they now include "her."</span>