ok, i can upgrate Apache. But problem it will not solve. How i can restart script under SpeedyCGI? Or you about SpeedyCGI?

What?

SpeedyCGI requires write access, the only way to fix it, is to patch SpeedyCGI, modify SpeedyCGI, edit SpeedyCGI, rewrite some lines in SpeedyCGI ... these files src/speedy_script.c src/speedy_perl.c...

If you have apache, and fascgi, you can use FCGI::Restarter

If you have mod_perl, Apache::Reload

SpeedyCGI comes with a shutdown but it also needs write acces :)

You could probably use kill :) say via Daemon::Generic...