Hi, your links let me to several other pages, all together I managed to run make, make test and make install for DBD::mysql

The most important information was found in:

https://discussions.apple.com/thread/3136351?start=0&tstart=0
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and

http://bixsolutions.net/forum/thread-8.html
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Thanks!
Ps. bury me when I give up..........