I do hope that someone can tell me what I'm doing wrong.

I can't, its too hard for me

I will off your these examples ( ?node_id=3989;BIT=module-starter%20-mb;a=%5Banonymous%20monk%5D )
Re: creating META.yml with Module::Build
Re: Build.PL usage during module authoring
use --mi Re: Build under *bsd with Module::Install fails - Can't find .pm that is part of dist (distcheck, disttest)

Compare the directory structure to yours -- i think you have too many directory prefixes