It's often hard when bewildered to get your arms around exactly what it is you're trying to achieve, but going through that exercise will get you into a position where we can better help you. As it is, I've read your post three times, and am still unclear on what it is you're trying to do. I'm guessing that you're trying to upload an image and have the web site send email. Is that right?

Try this: describe what you are trying to do in terms of what steps you expect to perform, and how you expect the system to respond. Something like "I want to upload an image to my web site, and have the web site send the image by email. I first bring up an 'upload' page in my browser, then I... and then I...," etc.