Then I was completely misunderstood. Look at the threads here - people were criticizing each other's methods. Here's what I was trying to say:

Hey Toni, it's all tense in here; people are treating this like life and death - when you read this, don't let it reflect on you or your question - just relax, take it with a grain of salt, and come back to us.

It was precisly for the reason that s/he hadn't posted that I wanted to make this person feel welcome. Was the nature of my post such that it made sense for me to say "hey, man - chill out"? It didn't seem that way to me.

And now. without waiting for any clarification on my part, I have been given another -1. Does this thing have a monitor? This is just craziness.