If you don't have anything positive to say to the 'OP', then maybe you shouldn't say anything at all. Especially after the question has been answered 6 hours before you post. Especially when ellem admitted being ashamed of asking the question.

If you see a person changing their tire on the side of the road, do you stop and help or do you stop and say 'Hey! You got a flat!' and drive off?

jeffa

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(the triplet paradiddle with high-hat)