You can use regular <a href="...">'s in the Personal Nodelet if you add them via User Settings, and using arbitrary link names for [node]-style links is as simple as appending a |my link name in the same User Settings nodelet manager.
The latter isn't perfect, though ... it effectively does [n|foo] rather than [id://n|foo], but for all the nodes I've tried, it's still taken me to the correct node.
--k.
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