You may want to try this book. I heard so many good things about it from colleagues that I had to get a copy for myself. The beauty of this book is that it doesn't really center around the programming languages used, but rather the 'paradigm shift' in the way of thinking to provide a solution to a problem. It hasn't disappointed me yet....

Object-Oriented Software Construction By Bertrand Meyer
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I think you can find it at: http://fatbrain.com