Actually paying forward is what I try to do if I come somewhere new. I couldn't stand being seen as a clueless newbie so I always try to learn at least he very basics and answer a few "stupid" questions, before I actually ask.

I don't know what would my psychiatrist say to this (should ask her sometime), but I simply can't come somewhere and start screaming for help.

Jenda

P.S.: Maybe that's why I'm skipping the areas of life that miss a useable manual :-}