Contact the milkbone people and ask them for their trademark/copyright guidelines. The JavaJunkies.org as well as other forums with the name Java in them got contacted by someone from the SUN legal department, and what they ended up having to do (the website administrators, with all the non-user contributed content -- meaning non-posts) is refer to JavaJunkies.org always as JavaJunkies.org, and add a disclaimer saying that :

Java™ and all Java-based marks are trademarks
or registered trademarks of Sun Microsystems, Inc.
in the U. S. and other countries. JavaJunkies
is not affiliated with Sun Microsystems, Inc.
in any way.

Oh yeah, get a lawyer ;)