So you “. . . challenge other posts if they seem to draw conclusions too rashly or to get more info” and “. . . challenge information and ideas to assure their quality and to seek alternatives . . . .” That doesn’t sound too bad. But taken in the context of posts like
and what impression are we left with? That you have been intentionally confrontational to see what kind of a response you would provoke? I really want to believe that it is just the way you are coming across but it just doesn’t feel that way and that makes me sad for you.