Thanks a lot, kennethk. I agree with you. It is lack of time that tempts to ask a question in a new thread when I see that I need to rephrase it and can't wait to get the answer.
May I ask you one more question. Will it protect if I do the following.
First of all I do not allow attachements. All I need is to reply to the indicated email address with the link to my site with the generated ID. When it is clicked I got confirmation and register this user. When the email address is entered in the form I get it on the server side and make sure that there is only one there. Now, the bot may keep bombarding my form with addresses and pressing submit in the loop. But what I do is I do not accept submissions from the same IP with frequency higher than let's say 5 mins.