In an earlier node, I outlined a few of my experiences with being laid off. It took me some time to get over it emotionally. In doing so (and in working at other companies since then), I've learned a few things:

Finally, if (when?) you are laid off...DON'T take it personally--even if they try to make it so. Yes, it'll hurt. You'll need to vent and you'll need to recover. However, if you accept the decision with as much grace as possible and depart without burning bridges, you may possibly a) get called back or b) be able to form a strategic relationship with your former employer later.

Also, if you are fortunate to find a new position right away and have a bit of your severance left, you might consider taking a few days before you start your new position. You can let go the pain and allow yourself to start the next step of grief recovery. (Note: In some US companies, you can "manage" the size of your severance by building up your vacation time to the maximum you can carry over from year to year. It's not much, but an extra two weeks' pay never hurts.)

Getting laid off is no picnic, but in the end...it's just business and it is *just* a job. Your ability to survive losing it will depend strictly on your flexibility. Take pride in your work, do your best possible work for each project, and keep reality in mind. Everyone is expendable. Accept that and move on.

--f


In reply to Re: Surviving Layoffs by footpad
in thread Surviving Layoffs by seeker

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