Hello :). I am sure that you have nothing to worry about :). I know that I would never leave my girl for perl :). I am certain that he would love to hear that you have surfed the Perl Monk site to see what he was so interested in :). I can't speak for everyone, but as good as perl has been to me, there are a few thing that perl is incapable of, and I would definately never leave a lady for perl :). I hope this reaches you, and I hope that everything goes well between you and your man :). I just wish that I had a lady who was so interested in me that she gave the things that I like a chance :)