People do persist and to some extent maintain state, I just called you a "Perl expert" this doesn't imply a momentary state. Your view of people as innately good also doesn't imply a momentary state. And "being a fool" doesn't imply a momentary state.

Much like two-thirds of programmers will err in judging $obj->new, many English speakers will mistake your meaning and be stung when reading "some fool comes along, this time it's $reader_name". That many here, myself included, are glad to have your expertise; and that many of us have become used to your poor tact; and that many of "the powers that be" know you in real life; and that some of us are just in awe of you--all those make Perl Monks a very forgiving audience for you.

The idea that politeness and effectiveness are either-or qualities of communication is erroneous. Compare politeness to good identifier names and good logic flow. "Fool" was not the best of variable names.

Your lack of skill in handling people has cost you a lot and I don't expect you to "get it" just because I write this; but as I see myself as more expert (close to normal) in this skill it is my duty to try to help you correct yourself. You are articulate but you have a small blind spot that leaves you insensitive to others regarding this sort of thing. Ugol's law is worth consideration.

I am warmed by a couple of your posts in this thread; the fineness of your intentions is not usually so well displayed. Perhaps you could craft a less abrasive standard disclaimer from things you have said in this thread. I volunteer my help if you want it.

Be well.

I think, in the first instance(s) after creating something, or doing something, or indeed in the process of doing it, we have to identify with our actions, as they are a part of us at that moment. It takes time to distance onesself enough to be able to be critical of ourselves.

This reminds me somewhat about a practice that (apparently) goes on in the army. If theres a problem of some sort between two people/soldiers, anyone that wishes to complain is supposed to sleep over it, and complain the next day, if there's still reason to. The reason being to both time to distance themselves, and understand their actions from a different perspective. I find it quite a good idea, and many a time I've wanted to reply to a post/person in some scathing manner, Ive waited a while to see if I still wanted to later.

Now, you're probably going to say that in some cases one just can't afford to wait, that its better for various reasons to avert disaster now, than wait until morning. And in many cases you'd be right. One should however still try to take into account many (young/new) programmers may take offense at such, even if, on the next day, what you said makes perfect sense to them too, and they maybe even feel foolish for not understanding your reply in the heat of the moment.

What I'm clumsily trying to point out is, that your choosing to be effective rather than polite may have the opposite effect than intended, because people may get so hung up on the fact that you are calling them fools (and not their actions foolish, which is apparently what you intended), and not actually realise which point you are trying to get across. (I know I have).

Anyway, this theory of 'wait and do it tomorrow' should also apply to the people that think "I'll reply to this thread with a funky solution to garner some XP". *These* people should at least think long enough to add warnings to their code when they know it's not a good thing to do, or indeed whether they should post it at all. (A technique also practiced by me on occasion, I make a note of what I wanted to post, and look again on the following day).

Thanks for the explanation. I'll try to keep it in mind next time I read some of your comments, though it won't be easy. Maybe linking to the above post (or entire thread) in your signature would help.

C.