in reply to mod_perl.so installed, not running?

Look into your errorlog file to verify that your mod_perl is running. Another option is to try a
HEAD http://yourhost/
and watch your server header. It s enabled by default. Here is my one:
Server: Apache/2.0.49 (Unix) mod_perl/1.99_14 Perl/v5.8.3 mod_ssl/2.0. +49 OpenSSL/0.9.7d DAV/2 SVN/1.0.2
Boris