Howdy!
No. I wasn't joking. I was taking a light-hearted approach instead of being
ponderous and weighty.
You responded to a slightly (and only just barely) sarcastic response that
did offer a constructive observation. In that response, you introduced the
term "JERKS", taking the discourse toward the path that is often called
"flame war". You did note that you had tried the suggested change already
without useful effect, but you had not shared that before.
Your testy response drew an anonymous one that raised the heat level a bit.
You got all snotty and snippy over that. The pattern is a classic one in
usenet circles. Someone gets a bit peevish, gets poked by someone else,
and keeps turning the flame factor up. It's a sorry spectacle to watch,
and if you didn't mean to get into the war of escalation, you can get
real toasty real fast. If you meant to jump into a flame fest, you are
on your own. My warning was meant to give you an easy way to save face
by ratcheting back your rhetoric and staying on topic.
If you take this counsel to be some sort of "I'm better than you" riff,
you are quite mistaken. If you can't take critical feedback, then, perhaps
you do need to rethink participating here. People don't normally get
jumped on with golf spikes unless they ask for it. Your behavior was
heading that way.
Your reply to me certainly showed that you didn't yet get it. I hope this
longer explanation helps you understand what I am trying to get across. I
don't yet have reason to simply discard and ignore your contributions.
As I said before, it's still in your hands.
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