Without a very good knowladge of Kannada, it's impossible for me to tell if that's over the line or not. Certianly, it is possible to talk about women, and even their blouses and bras (the only words there that I'm fairly certian I can tell what they mean), without being over any line. Indeed, the line is highly variable.

What I can tell is who is speaking -- did you try to tell them that you thought their language was out-of-line? That should always be the first line of defense for things like this -- people talking to people, and trying to work things out between each-other before bringing the big bad gods into play.