Yes! If I can have phrased it right. But if I can't - like this time - then I try to gather a lot of comments in hope few of them will be really helpful. If you know another, less nerve-racking way for this - I'll be happy to hear it and to use it in the future.

That's easy. For example, start your post with "I'm having trouble formulating my thoughts, but here are the issues I see." If you'd have used a thing like that instead of "Class, prepare your mouse pointers, take them near '--' and be ready to click 'Vote!' because I'm going to say something terrible about CPAN." you could have expected much more constructive answers, as the quality of answers depend on the question they seek to answer. If you really didn't think of that, no matter how much of this "I have you guys right where I want you to!" talk you'll let loose, it won't repair your reputation.

If badaiaqrandista is right, then why statistics prove different thing?

Statistics don't prove.