Understood, and thanks. I think I get frozen in the headlights, get all bunched-up mentally, and then post ... well, semi-incoherently. Then thanks to some Monk-ly patience I will get some advice, walk away, keep hammering, and eventually get there ... and often regret the semi-incoherent posts later.

As is the case here.

There are other factors (particulars re: my job), but I'll leave it there for now, and ponder how to be more specific and focused with posts in future. :)