Your valuation of respect seems to be quite low, at least looking at you respecting other people. Denouncing other people on your home node as showing

aggravating degrees of cluelessness, ignorant behavior (including the chosing of a deliberately offensive user nickname), repeatedly asking about things without paying attention to the answers they've already been offered, etc

- no matter in what context - isn't respectful behaviour: it's calling them names. Please stop that.