Wherever you go, there you are...

Here is another data point. In many years and many communities I have met many people who I clash with personality-wise. Sometimes very publically, sometimes privately. But I consider none of them a nemesis. Instead I would prefer to live and let live, even after becoming convinced that X is the greatest moron I have had the displeasure of dealing with. As far as I am concerned, life is too short to waste on feuds.

OTOH I have been "Zag" for quite a few people...