I prefer to think of a little of this as paying forward: if I've helped establish a culture of helping, people who've worked with me will be more willing to reciprocate if I ask them for help.
And "help" isn't always "I don't understand this code"; sometimes it's "Got any leads on a new contract?" or I need a job - could you put in a good word for me at X?". If you've established that you will do a favor, you're more likely to get a favor.
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I like your advice ++. However! I will never, never, never, never, never, never, never, never read a word the Jar Jar Binks of Star Trek has committed to the Void. And as your friend, I insist you desist.
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Then to quote: "Don't be a dick." If you're avoiding him on the basis of Wesley Crusher, you're missing a funny guy.
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