in reply to (OT) my first fired experience

I can very well feel your disturbance about getting fired. I can very much imagine I'd feel the same (and hate myself for feeling so strongly about how some bunch of a****les acted).

I haven't been through this yet (thankfully), but I did heard that much of it is normal:

As a piece of encouragement, please consider that

I wish you the best of luck, and hope that you'll find something to do which you both like, and which can sustain you.

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Re^2: (OT) my first fired experience
by leocharre (Priest) on Jun 12, 2010 at 11:51 UTC

    I was actually randomly approached by a potential employer half way accross the country- maybe a year ago. Likely offering a pay raise- as well as a more challenging working environment. I looked around- and I thought- I can't be such an a****le to leave like this- and I had my hot shot ivy league gf working a city over. The gf dumped me- the work- well.. the work.

    I guess my office and street smarts didn't keep up with my fledgeling unix hacknicity.

    Someone should write a good book about a balance between 'keeping the distance' and being a professional. Maybe Duncan gave it a try. I don't know that he talks enough about some of this, though.

    Again, thank you for your points. They are of use, and I will think about them.