The specific criteria present enough of a challenge; the "etc." is the skunk in the woodpile. Unless we know which elements of et cetera you really care about, we can't chose for you.

That said, another valid answer is "Pick one and if it works for you, its probably right for you... at least for now."

You can't profile, test, or (uh-oh; here it comes: ) etc. until you've written the code.