In terms of temporal monestary usage I'm pretty young here, and I do remember my first time here. I experienced no hostility whatsoever.

Me neither.

(Actually I see a problem in the other direction. It seems to be fashionable at the moment to affront a community (or certain members) and then whine about not being welcomed or even thrown out...)

update: and just to make sure, with "affront" I don't mean criticism but offending