Helllooo.. McFly! Anybody in there?

It's not any persons level sensitivity or ambiguity that is at issue. It is your over-reaction that exposes and creates one. It just simply shouldn't matter. If it does, than you should explore why and I believe you'll find whole worlds of human personalities you were never socially trained to even acknowledged their existance.

This is so NOT Perl.. Sorry my knee jerk reactions have wasted bandwidth