I'd rather be ... Do you make everybody prove themselves? ... If that's the attitude of this entire community ... just don't know how to talk to anyone who's not already fully indoctrinated ...

A short recap of your "question"

Short version: I'm kinda interested to build carmobile, but I'm a lazy baby, can you spoon feed me?

Long version:

I want to build an carmobile, I've heard I need these massively documented wheels and engine, but its all a bit generalized, ambiguous and over my head, can you spoon feed me?

me and my magic mirrored eight ball: Not for you

That is not an answer, is it my setup or are you just trying to be a dick?

I've seen lots of approaches at getting help, any kind of help, ad-hominem at first sign of push back rarely works

If my attitude, which the community generally doesn't share, spares the community some grief from rude posters like you, I think its time well spent

If you really want help don't distract from your goal with rudeness, focus on your goal