In addition to POE, I'd look at a connection using HTTP as a protocol. Why? Because HTTP::Daemon makes it easy to write a server, LWP::UserAgent makes it easy to write a client, and you get both binary-safe data and binary-safe meta-data (form posting) in both directions.

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