in reply to OLE::Win32 Mail Item->send Warning

The message "A program is trying to send mail ... Do you want to allow...?" has been a "Security Feature" since Outlook 2000 SP2.

AFAIK, it cannot be disabled.

Here is a link that claims to have a workaround (VBA):
http://www.everythingaccess.com/tutorials.asp?ID=Outlook-Send-E-mail-Without-Security-Warning.

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