or download this
$ curl --trace-time --verbose https://www.perlmonks.org
09:07:56.633950 * Trying 216.92.34.251:443...
...
09:08:12.102175 * ALPN: offers h2,http/1.1
09:08:12.102535 * TLSv1.3 (OUT), TLS handshake, Client hello (1):
09:09:25.663887 * TLSv1.3 (IN), TLS handshake, Server hello (2):