brianarn++ for describing accurately a so cruel reality ;-) ...
Now let me give some hope to the freshly married :
With time you can manage to increase you "computer hours" at home, even with a kid !
Of course you'll have to be organized like a minister, stealth like a ninja,
and forget any hope of being considered as a normal (read "social") person by your friends...
For some
lucky guys , having a
Pearl as a wife may also help a lot...
"
Only
Bad
Coders
Code
Badly
In
Perl" (OBC2BIP)