Honestly, this was not an attempt to knock OP, but more of a "why" deal, considering this is very very much covered in manuals. The idea was not to make an example of OP, god knows I have been told to RTFM before, but to make an example of the question... does this make sense?
If you don't have anything positive to say to the 'OP',
then maybe you shouldn't say anything at all. Especially
after the question has been answered 6 hours before you
post. Especially when ellemadmitted being
ashamed of asking the question.
If you see a person changing their tire on the side of the
road, do you stop and help or do you stop and say 'Hey! You
got a flat!' and drive off?