Geek is on the inside:)
Some geeks stand out more then others. Because geek is on the inside, you also end up with "closet geeks". These are the people who put you down when you were young for being too technically minded....BUT these people have secret identities running chat servers and nationally recognized web sites.
labeling is a weird topic. I think its kind of funny, so I go out of my way to collect t-shirts and what not which people would label as "geeky". Its my way of saying fold your label into sharp corners and sit on it.
I say do what your gonna do, and let everyone else worry about what label you fall under.